What kid know about love

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” - Chrissy, age 6 

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” - Terri, age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” - Danny, age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.” - Emily, age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” - Bobby, age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” - Nikka, age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” - Noelle, age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” - Tommy, age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” - Cindy, age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” - Clare, age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” - Elaine, age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Brad Pitt.” - Chris, age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” - Mary Ann, age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” - Lauren, age 4

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” - Rebecca, age 8

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” - Karen, age 7

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” - Jessica, age 8

there's something we should know one day. 
that not everything we want, we could get.
that there's hard to accept the fact.
that's we felt there's many on our side, but when we turn around there's no one.
that's everybody will be alone.
but we must know that
there'll be someone waiting for us at the end. 

texting with panot

panot : how are you? are you okay? how was your MR AP?

mija : i am pretty good. and it's great. MR AP? he's getting annoying.

panot : wah! that's good. hurm.. getting annoying? hahaha

mija : here. he's getting weird. he changes. he's getting more sensitive, i think.

panot : really? you still hope for him ha?

mija : yes. but i post in facebook that i already give up on him. i think it's better for him to not know

          that i still love him, still hope for him.

panot : ouch. pity you. how can he didn't know that you really love him.

mija : i don't know. he always full of egos. sometime i felt like an idiot, you know. how can i still love 

          him after what he had done to me. i had tried to forget him. but every time i want to forget him,

          to not text-ing

         him, he will text me. how can i forget him? everything i did remind me of him.

panot : yeah. i know it is really hard to forget someone that we love so much. but if the person hurts  

            your heart so much, you just go to forget him a little harder.

mija : honestly, i never regret the presence of him in my life. and i never want to forget him. i mean i 

          don't want to forget him. he make my life great even he hurt me. a lot. but i have used to it. i 

          never see him as a obstacle in my life.

panot : aduh. hearing what you said make me feel sad. hurm. why don't you try to tell him what you

             feel about him. maybe me felt the same way.

mija : I WISH THAT'S TRUE. i don't want because i'm afraid. i afraid if i told him, he will accept me but it's not because of love but because of sympatise. all i want is to be loved by him.

panot : but i'm sure he felt the same way. but maybe he's ego is too big. 

mija : i hope so. but let's see. sometime i think it's impossible for me to have a men like him. 

how single life is.

Single life? Dulu tak best time awal-awal break, macam rasa lonely je. Rasa macam something missing je awal awal putus cinta dulu tu. Dah lama lama ok jewwwww. Tak ada rasa LOSER ke hape sebab tak ada boyfriend. ada boyfriend pon menyakitkan hati nak buat apa. Apa yang best nya lah life single ni lahh:

• Bebas nak buat apa je. tak ada yang nak kongkong, tak ada yang nak halang
• Nak kawan dengan siapa siapa pon tak ada hal dan tak ada yang nak cemburu
• Kredit  selalu ada je. Ye lah dah tak ada nak mesej "good morning" "good evening" "good night" "i miss you" "i love you mwah mwah mwah" "sayang u ketat ketat" dah tak ada dah benda benda ni nak bagi dekat orang. So jimat di situ

I'm waiting for a man yang boleh terima diri aku seadanya. Terima kekurangan diri aku. Kalau kelebihan tu of course lah orang boleh terima. Ni yang kekurangan ni. Hope dia boleh lah terima diri aku seadanya. dan dia sayang aku dan layan aku macam mana sepatutnya aku dapat. tu lahhhhhhhhhh.

This is what we called a man

Kita peduli dia, dia cakap takda kebebasan

Kita tak pedulikan dia, dia cakap kita tak prihatin

Kita reject dia, dia cakap kita jual mahal

Kita terima dia, dia tak hargai

Dia tak dapat kejar kita, dia kejar kawan kita

Dia dapat kita, dia kejar orang lain

Dia keluar dengan perempuan, dia cakap kawan

Kita keluar dengan lelaki, dia cakap curang

Kita bagi dia, dia cakap kita jenis sembarang

Kita tak bagi dia, dia cakap kita tak sayang

Kita merokok, dia cakap kita perempuan liar

Dia merokok, dia cakap dia lelaki

Kita make-up lawa, dia cakap kita tarik perhatian orang

Kita tak make-up, dia cakap tak pandai bergaya

Kita belum bagi, dia takkan tinggalkan kita

Tapi

Bila kita dah bagi dia, dia akan tinggalkan kita macam tu saja

kawan?

a loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they`re not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they`re not so bad. -Arnold H. Glasgow

korang semua tahu tak apa makna sebenar kawan? bagi mija, kawan tu seseorang yang sangat penting dalam hidup mija. kawan seseorang yang mesti ada kat sisi mija sewaktu mija perlu someone or not. terlalu besar erti kawan dalam hidup mija. so jom kita ramai-ramai fahami erti kawan yang sebenar, okay?

• bukan senang nak cari kawan yang baik
• bukan senang nak cari kawan yang setia
• bukan senang juga nak menjadi seorang kawan yang baik
• kawan yang baik tak pernah mengumpat di belakang kawan baiknya
• kawan yang baik tak pernah cemburu ke atas kejayaan kawan baiknya
• kawan yang baik ialah orang yang paling banyak membantu kawan baiknya untuk berjaya
• kawan yang baik tidak pernah mempengaruh kawan baiknya membuat perkara yang sia-sia
• kawan yang baik ialah orang yang selalu menasihati kawan baiknya berbuat kebaikan.
• kawan yang baik ialah orang pertama yang dicari tiba masa sedih dan gembira
• kawan yang baik menjadi tempat meluahkan perasaan yang tidak dapat diluahkan kepada kawan biasa
• kawan yang baik tidak pernah memaksa kawan baiknya untuk berada di sisinya
• kawan yang baik tidak pernah melarang kawan baiknya untuk berkawan dengan kawan yang baik
• kawan yang baik tidak pernah cemburu jika kawan baiknya mempunyai ramai kawan baik, kerana kawan yang baik tahu apa yang paling baik buat kawan baiknya
• kawan yang baik sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan dan kebahagiaan kawan baiknya di dunia dan di akhirat di dalam doanya
• kita ialah kawan yang baik jika kita faham bahawa kawan baik kita bukanlah seorang yang sempurna
• kita ialah kawan yang baik jika kita menjadi kawan yang baik kepada kawan baik kita
• kita bukanlah kawan yang baik jika kita tidak menghargai kawan baik kita kerana kawan yang baik sentiasa menghargai kawan baiknya
• kita bukanlah kawan yang baik jika kita tidak memberitahu perkara yang baik kepada kawan baik kerana kawan yang baik akan selalu menyampaikan perkara yang baik kepada kawan baiknya
• kawan yang baik akan memanjangkan naskhah ini kepada kawan-kawanya, bukan kerana terpaksa, bukan kerana suka-suka, tetapi untuk dijadikan pedoman oleh kawan-kawannya supaya dapat menjadi seorang kawan yang baik kepada kawan baiknya
• kalau kita nak dapatkan kawan yang baik,kita mesti lebih dahulu menjadi seorang kawan yang baik kepada kawan yang baik

semoga dari membaca point-point di atas, kita dapat jadi kawan yang baik. ingat ek. kawan yang baik tak perlu dicari, kerana kawan yang baik akan datang kepada kita dengan sendiri. tiada istilah "i`m sorry" and "thank you" dalam kamus persahabatan. tapi jangan pula kita salah menilai kawan baik kita sebab mereka tak memenuhi kriteria-kriteria kawan yang baik di atas kerana tak semua orang perfect.

it is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. -William Blake

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